In my practice and in my life experience, I see a lot of people who want to "heal" a family member. They come to me with a healing intention directed to someone else. They want someone else to understand the truth, to see the Light, to get some sense into them... That's not how my healing practice works: I teach and guide my clients to take a good look inside first, to understand one's own lessons, buttons, and blinders.
You see, such an intention hides an underlying energy of judgment and conditional/limited love against the other. As good as the intention can seem to the rational mind, it might not be for the highest good of all involved. Such an intention often comes from our ego, from our hurts, from our beliefs or our socio-cultural perceptions; it is exclusive of the other's reality and life experience. We want the other person to fit in, to start eating healthy, to take better care of him/herself... but what if their life lesson and karma is tied to living this contrast? Who are we to take that experience away from them before they learn the lesson? And if you're sucked into their drama, are you really in a good place to enable their healing and learning process?
The action needed is rooted in Love. Connect with divine Love and with the healing Earth energy and, from your heart, place all that Love and healing in a bubble, and send it along to everyone, and especially to those with whom you experience the most discord. Trust that this bubble of Love will reach them.
If someone is particularly frustrating and is pushing your buttons, think of five reasons why that person is worthy of love, and why you are grateful for this person. His or her role in your life might just be to irritate you so you can learn patience and release control, so bless them for that, learn your lessons, and send a bubble of Love to yourself!
Remember that every person in your life is affected by your beliefs and expectations. The more Love you send, the more Love is returned to you.
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