Tuesday, April 29, 2014

What is the story behind a judgement?

Dear Lightworker: remember that when others judge you, they are doing so out of their own fears and insecurities. Likewise, before you judge someone else, hold that thought and ask yourself where that need for judgement is coming from. Are you following a family tradition or generational pattern; are you reacting from a childhood trauma; is there some jealousy for the other's gift or attitude; have you been told earlier in life that what you are about to criticize is less than desirable and, recognizing that gift/attitude/behaviour in yourself, you are denying it to yourself? There is always something behind a criticism, and when you know what it is, it frees you to open the door to more Love and Compassion.